Here are eight of her favorite picks for women wanderers:
4. To celebrate powerful women and their places in
history: Frida Kahlo's Mexico
Mexican artist Frida Kahlo is one of history's grand divas. A tequila-slamming,
dirty joke-telling smoker, she hobbled about her bohemian barrio in lavish
indigenous dress and threw dinner parties for the likes of Leon Trotsky, poet
Pablo Neruda, Nelson Rockefeller, and her on-again, off-again husband, muralist
Diego Rivera. Half a century after her death, her work fetches more money than
any other female artist's (Madonna is said to be an avid collector), and she was
the first Latina ever featured on a U. S. postage stamp. Visiting her cobalt
blue home in Coyoacan is like stepping inside one of her fantastical paintings.
The walls are awash with color and mosaics; a Day of the Dead altar yields
pastries, flowers, candles, and papier mâché skeletons; the courtyard blooms
with tropical flowers and cactus. Her personal effects are displayed throughout
the house, including her pre-Hispanic jewelry, sketchbook diaries, love letters,
artwork, and corset-like body cast. (Stricken with polio as a child, she
shattered her spine in a bus accident at age eighteen.) Frida t-shirts, computer
mousepads, and coffee cups are sold in the gift shop, and you can sip a café con
leche in the tranquil café. La Casa Azul is located on Londres 247 and
accessible by the Coyoacan Viveros Metro Station in Mexico City.
5. To celebrate struggle and renewal: Arts and voodoo
festivals in Benin
Traveling in West Africa is empowering for women — precisely because it is
challenging. You must utilize every available resource to make it through the
day, and when you finally find that market or village you are seeking, it is
like unearthing rubies. The warmth and hospitality of its people make Benin
especially welcoming. Upon arrival to any town, visit the mayor's office and ask
for the local women's group. A guide will likely take you to the local crafts
cooperative, where you can buy directly from the artisans. Also explore the
world of voodoo, a belief that natural forces like rain and wind have spiritual
forces behind them. Practitioners build shrines out of small mounds of earth and
offer their gods alcohol, flowers, food, and the blood of animals sacrificed in
their honor. On National Voodoo Day — January 10 — partake in dancing fueled by
copious amounts of sodabe (a local palm liquor) at the vibrant festivals in
Ouidah. Look out for the Mami Wata worshippers, who dress in all white. Mostly
women, they are considered very powerful and are often feared.
6. For womanly affirmation: Belly dancing in San
Francisco, New York, or Austin
Belly dancing dates back to pre-Biblical times, when it was performed as a
fertility-cult ritual. In ancient Arab tribes, midwives assisted women in labor
by dancing around them, rolling their stomachs to imitate the contraction of the
uterus. It was also performed as entertainment throughout the Orient by and for
women who stayed home while their husbands were out. Not only a great physical
workout, modern belly dancing will get you in touch with your earthy self.
Communities can be found in every corner of the United States. San Francisco is
home to Fat Chance Belly Dance, a renowned tribal dance troupe. Take a class at
their studio at 670 South Van Ness Avenue. In New York City, look up legendary
teacher Morocco of the Casbah Dance Experience, or Sarah Johansson Locke of
Alchemy Performance. Austin, Texas is the place to be on full moons, when Lucila
Dance Productions hosts Haflas, gatherings of dancers and drummers who snack on
grape leaves as they dance barefoot beneath the stars. Down some wine if you
feel inhibited: it's the best hip lubricant around!
7. For all-around wonder: Mongolia
Mongolia. The word might conjure desolation, but this "last frontier" is
actually steeped in ritual and tradition and surrounded by stark, natural
beauty. Come to race a pony (or yak or camel) across a grassland speckled with
wildflowers, to meditate in hidden Tibetan Lamaist temples, to bask in the
legacy of Mandhai-Setsen, the Wise Queen who re-unified her turbulent nation by
leading her troops into battle in the fifteenth century.
In the countryside, hospitable families will welcome you to their ger
(wood-framed tent) with a small bowl of vodka (if you're lucky) or a potent brew
of fermented mare's milk called airag (if you're not). Drink every drop and hold
the bowl upside down over your head to prove it. Then explore the surrounding
area on horseback, which could mean Sherwood-like forests, Ghobi desert, or
tundra. The best month to visit Mongolia is July — not just for the sunny
weather, but for Naadam, a three-day, Olympic-style festival celebrated
throughout the nation. The wrestling division features 300-pound wrestlers clad
only in boots, briefs, and sleeves who clutch each other for hours (and hours)
until their strength wears out and they knock each other over. Like sumo, but
sexier.
8. Just for the fun of it: The Bahamian island of
Eleuthera
Nearly every sea culture has tales of lovely maidens who propel through the
ocean with fish-like tails. A few believe mermaids help steer ships from harm's
way, but most claim they are seductresses who, like the Sirens of myth, lure
sailors into the water with their songs and then sink their ships. One place
where mermaids are thought to be alive and well is the island of Eleuthera in
the Bahamas. Locals say that if you rise early enough, you can sometimes catch
them washing their golden locks on the rocks of Whale Point, an old swimming
hole. Bahamian children believe that their parents have seen this, and they will
too someday. If your own sunrise outing is in vain, become one yourself: there
is little to do here but splash in the water. Eleuthera's beaches (in
particular, Harbour Island) have crystalline waters filled with colorful reefs,
eagle rays, octopus, and dolphins. Whales migrate through annually. Then pass
the night at Elbina's in Gregory Town, where locals gather to sing along to live
Southern Caribbean music. Ask the old-timers about their own mermaid encounters;
you'll hear some great stories.
Stephanie Elizondo Griest's 100 Places Every Woman Should Go (Travelers' Tales,
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